Thursday, December 25, 2025

Christmas 2025

 Christmas 2025! 

A quarter of the way through the 21st century! Wait...What?!  Slow down already! Take your time, Old Man Time. I want to enjoy this.  

All right, freak out over. 

It was an excellent year by all accounts. Well, not the savings account, but that’s just electrons on circuit boards someplace, so...who cares? We got some excellent trips in, our daughters are doing well, and the dog has managed to avoid the inevitable for now—all good! 

Jenn and I disagree on which metaphor to refer to our current status in the parenting department. She prefers “Bird Launchers” (coined together with her friend, Lori) to put the emphasis on the offspring, rather than the more self-centered “empty nesters.” Good point. I like “Aircraft Carrier parents” for the vision of Emily and Claire bringing hellfire and destruction on an unsuspecting planet. That, and they can come back for refueling when they need to.  Toe-may-toe, toe-mah-toe.  

Claire graduated from UC, Irvine in June in Earth System Sciences and has submitted an article on the seasonal variability of data from satellites to measure evapotranspiration. Yeah, I know, we too are both proud and confused in equal measures. In news the rest of us can understand, she was promoted to a manager position at Savers but is also applying at grad schools who have ground water programs. She has so many great things ahead of her.  



Emily completed United’s flight attendant training in August and is probably overhead right now. Please look up and wave. Her home base is Denver, and she rents a room in a house with other airline employees. Alaska, Florida, Canada, Mexico; you name a place in the Western Hemisphere and she’s been there, and it’s only been three monthsShe is both very excited and very happy.    



Jenn and I have been enjoying Avalon on Catalina for years with its 1940’s charm: beachside pizza and drinks, decorative tiles all over the place and goofy shore excursionsSo this year we decided to replace all those happy memories with those of an ordeal—a 40-mile hike in April from the east end of the island to the west. As you can imagine, it was in turns: glorious, summiting the tallest peak on the island with ocean views on both sides; exhausting, approaching the campground with heavy packs after ten hours of hiking; and dangerous, discovering the downhill section was no relief because of a 45 degree slope composed of gravel marbles (only fell once and was able to stand up again only 60 yards downslope). And the buffalo. No fence between us and him. He just gave us a blank and pitiless gaze, determined we were not edible, and moved on past us up the trail we had descended. Even the showers we took at Two Harbors were remarkable, refreshing and gross at the same time. Great trip! Can’t wait to go back and do parts again. 



When it became clear that Emily would not be able to go to England with us because of her new job in the skies, we took both girls to Monterey for a long weekend. We stayed in an historic bed and breakfast, walking distance to the aquarium. We fell in love with the bay, the sand dunes and eclectic restaurants. The first time the Bear Flag flew over an independent California was at an adobe customs house at the wharfstill exists (and is remarkably humble about it)If you are planning a bike ride along the coast (we saw whales and seals on the 17-mile tour), our butts and quadriceps recommend you rent the electric bikes. We are all moving to Monterey when we grow up...and are inexplicably rich. 



Jenn and I took our big vacation in Great Britain this year. Scotland was firstand most memorable was the tour of the Highlands. We summarized that particular day with the phrase “3 Fs—flat, flood, flock.” Our van got a flat ten minutes outside of Glasgow. After a van swap, we arrived at our first stop, standing stones in a field that were inaccessible unless we waded across a flooded stream. Wet feet for the rest of the day—very Scottish we were assured by the guide. The stones were moving and mysterious, chilling even. As we left the stones we traveled along a single-track lane. Of course we came upon a flock of sheep generally moving in our same direction, but it did not recognize our right to pass. They were somehow both cute and annoying. An old Highland village and castle ruins rounded out the day. That, and a whiskey or two; good for wet feet, said the guide. 



Then we traveled by train to Bristol, where the two big events were a soccer match (featuring the Bristol Rovers in a 2-1 victory over Barrow) and a tour of the big Cathedral. Both Bristol and Glasgow made a lot of money during the colonial period in the slave trade. Glaswegians are more self-deprecating about it, while Bristol has more memorials directly confronting the past. It is interesting to see cities, and the personalities of the locals, shaped by the past. Then a short train trip to Bath. I can’t explain Bath’s beauty: go and see for yourself all its Jane Austen charm. There is a reason it is a world heritage site. 



Finally, on to London. We attended a West Ham match in Olympic Stadium. They lost (of course) to Crystal Palace 2-1, but still a bucket list item. Buckingham Palace, Churchhill’s bunker, and the British Museum high-lighted our last two days. Those Brits stole stuff from all over the world. 



We held our third annual “Excuse to Drink Beer” in mid OctoberGood friends enjoying German food and silly games sum up Oktoberfest. We kept the buzz going by attending a Las Vegas Raider game in November.  It was Jenn’s first time seeing her favorite team play a regular season game—very fun. 



On to Twenty twenty-six! We love you all! 

Monday, December 18, 2023

Christmas 2023

 I’m not sure if it’s the confidence that comes with surviving Covid, or if we are so far into middle age that youth and vigor are only experienced in our imaginations, but Jenn and I have come to the realization that we are adults! Full-grown, self-actualized adults. Eyes forward, shoulders back, ready for anything that comes our way. Who cares what anyone thinks of us? We decide what happens! Answerable to no one.

Well, still answerable to our kids….and our parents, sure. And our weirdly judgy neighbor; what’s up with him? But adults! Mostly, I guess.

Jenn was promoted this past June to a senior stage manager position, which sounds like she works at a community playhouse. To Disney everything is a show, even the division that oversees the trams, shuttles and parking lots. We are all very proud of her advancement and went to Orange Hill restaurant to commemorate the occasion. We got dressed up and ordered drinks that were completely unknown to us, but we played it off as if we had been drinking Suicide Slides for years.  Forgive our deception, but we were dressed to kill. The food was fantastic and the company even better.

Orange County lights

On our bucket list is to camp two nights on one of the Channel Islands, which will require a ferry and a haul of all the water, food and camping equipment. To prepare (i.e. to see if we are remotely capable) we packed into Joshua Tree’s backcountry a few miles and set up a tent. After one night we declared success, packed up and out. It was Spring after a lot of rain, and although you couldn’t call it lush or even green, it was far more verdant than I had ever seen Joshua Tree. If you’ve never smelled the high desert after a rain, consider it for your bucket list.

Success!

We had a number of memorable road trips to Central California (and one quite a bit further). Jenn and I took weekends touring Solvang and Morro Bay, which I would recommend to anyone who wants small-town California charm. In Solvang, we lunched at the Sausagegarten (yes, they serve a variety of pork links, and no, they do not cater to a particular clientele) and I drank beer from a 2L stein.  Morro Bay was memorable for our kayak trip around the estuary and a foray onto the sand dunes in which our guide pointed out a trash midden of seashells left by the Chumash at least a hundred years ago. It was a beautiful and exhausting day. Emily invested in a road-trip vehicle and promptly set off for parts unknown. When she returned, Jenn gently grilled her as only a mother can. Emily broke down and declared she wouldn’t tell us, but she would show us if we were that interested. Apparently, she hadn’t realized that was exactly the challenge Jenn was hoping for. So they took off on a mother-daughter road trip and went as far north as Sue-meg State Park (near Eureka) and when they returned, asked, “Do you know how long this state is?!” Then they answered, “No, no you don’t. Let me tell you…” And I heard all about it.

Mother Nature must have noticed our newfound maturity and felt it necessary to humble us. In August she sent 50% of our annual rainfall in two days and added 45 mph winds to boot. I know this sounds banal to the rest of the country (“Uh, wind and rain are normal weather events, son”), but in southern California wind and rain are the two Horsemen of the Apocalypse. Our local news goes on Stormwatch! and we all sit transfixed in front of the tv, watching cars driving through the rain while we murmur, “Oh, those poor people.” Then She kicked it up a notch, Earthquake!! And we were already at peak panic! We were so rattled it took us forty-eight hours to forget the whole thing ever happened. After all, internet memes, political turmoil and Taylor Swift’s on tour and tickets only cost $3500! There’s no room in our heads for what happened yesterday.

Wine tasting in Solvang
Hiking in the Redwood National Park

Sunset at Morro Rock

Along the Big Sur Coast

We also saw two shows whose target audiences are charitably described as educated and refined and less charitably described as dorks and nerds: Wait, Wait, Don’t Tell Me at the Greek Theater and the Tina Fey-Amy Poehler comedy show in Redlands. We had a great time at both but were very out of place, as we saw almost nothing but dorks and nerds at both places! [Insert your own joke at our expense here] If you envy us for attending those, you might like to know I met Kai Ryssdal in the offices of NPR’s Marketplace and even had Nancy Farghalli take pictures of the two of us. I found out later that Nancy can produce the heck out of a radio show but can’t operate a cell phone camera. Nuts!


Claire, in particular, soared to new heights of maturity by getting a job, securing a driver’s license, moving into an apartment she shares with three friends, and chewing up UCI courses and spitting them out! We are very proud.

Legal to drive!

Beside going on road trips, Emily is gainfully employed at Knott’s Berry Farm, which is no longer owned by the Knott family, has no berry plants, and is not a farm of any kind. Huhnh. But they do have a great chicken restaurant, where Emily helps out. She has designs on the next challenge. Stay tuned!

For our 25th (Jenn claims this using dates and facts, but I trump this with my feelings that say we’ve been married ten years, twelve tops) wedding anniversary we flew to Anchorage and cruised the Alaskan and Canadian shoreline back to Vancouver, enjoying fresh salmon dinners, kayak tours, river floats, forest bike rides, glacier encounters and a significant amount of alcohol along the way with a great group of friends. We even got dressed up on the actual night of our anniversary to take pictures of ourselves. As long as you don’t put them alongside our wedding pics, we look pretty good!

Hubbard Glacier

Later we invited this same group of friends over for a beer-themed party in October. It was great fun, drinking beer and playing German folk games (like Stump and Masskrugstemmen) but I never could come up with a catchy name for it. October Beer Party? Fall Beer Festival? I’ll work on it.

Prost!

Luckily no new name was needed for the feast on a Thursday in November, so we had the whole fam damily over for turkey and trimmings. It is a relief to spend time with loved ones, exploring the bonds of kinship and friendship keeping us in love with each other. That, and my goodness, the food!! I should have fasted for the next two days. But I didn’t.


It is now Christmas season, and I can think of no better time to wish all of you happiness, love and peace for now, next year and always,


The Leebs